When Positive Thinking Fails

Have you tried positive thinking, self talk, affirmations,people you know who despite honest attempts to
read books on the power of suggestion,change their destiny
autosuggestion, watched "the secret" or taken courses- lead unfulfilled or unsatisfying lives
on how to materialize your goals and are still waiting- continue to struggle with money problems
for results? If so, you may be positively surprised by- suffer from low self confidence and its unfortunate
what you're about to learn.consequences
Research by leading universities in the field of cognitive- are not satisfied with their work and simply show up
and behavioral science proves the existence of soday after day to collect a pay check at the end of the
called “automatic thoughts”, i.e. thoughts thatmonth
come to mind involuntarily and effortlessly as anWhy do these people continue to fail? In most cases it
automatic response to certain stimuli. These are theisn’t for lack of trying or good will. It’s because
thoughts that ultimately determine whether you'll fail orour brains are programmed to subconsciously react to
succeed.certain stimuli in the form of predetermined (automatic)
The average person processes over 60'000 separatethoughts that guide our behaviors.
thoughts per day, of which 90% occur subconsciously.If the conscious mind tries to initiate a behavioral
Automatic thoughts are produced by our subconsciouschange that conflicts with the subconscious mind’s
mind and continue to execute without the involvementpre-programmed thought patterns, the subconscious
of our conscious mind. Think about how many thingsmind always wins. In his famous book “Self
you just do, day in day out, without even consciouslyMastery through Conscious Autosuggestion” Dr.
thinking about it. These automatic thoughts are like miniEmile Coue writes: “In the conflict between the will
computer programs in our subconscious minds. Theyand the subconscious mind, the force of the
automatically come into action as a response to stimulisubconscious mind is in direct ratio to the square of the
in our environment.will”, i.e. even if you're willing to change, you won't
While many automatic thoughts are positive, some ofchange unless you change the subconscious
them can create undesirable limitations in terms of yourautomatic thoughts.
ability to evolve and progress – you could call themThink of how many people you know fully understand
“success blockers”. They simply prevent youthat smoking is damaging to their health, and yet they
from progressing or being successful in certain areas.continue to smoke. Or how many people know that
Automatic thoughts determine your thought patterns,eating excessively not only makes them feel
attitudes and behaviors. The reactions you thenunattractive but is also bad for their well being, and yet
observe from your environment validate your thoughts.they continue to eat more than they should. There's
A key observation is that certain “automaticclearly no lack of consciousness here, and yet, the
thoughts” are triggered by many common beliefbehaviors persist. The latest statistics indicate that
patterns (schema) with groups of people whofewer than one in five people who follow a formal
experience the same or similar challenges andweight loss program actually succeed in loosing weight.
limitations.Why is the failure rate so high? Because despite all the
The first step in eliminating automatic thoughts thatgood intentions the cognitive and associated behavioral
prevent you from being successful in a certain area ispatterns of these people remain unchanged and
to determine the thought patterns that trigger successcontinue to produce the same old undesirable
limiting thoughts, attitudes and behaviors.outcomes.
The second step is to actively change these thoughtThe only effective way to produce results is to
patterns (cognitive modification) and introduce cognitivere-condition your thought and behavioral patterns. In
patterns that have been observed to trigger positiveunscientific terms it could be compared to erasing old
results.“success blocker programs” and installing new
But how do you do that? Ask yourself, how many“success enabler programs” on your computer.