| Picking up the pieces and making your marriage work | | | | want to consider counseling separately but there is |
| after an affair is not going to be easy by any stretch | | | | something about your marriage that is not right if you |
| of the imagination. It will be much better for you if both | | | | or your spouse has had an affair. People who are |
| parties are working together to make it happen though. | | | | getting everything they need at home have no reason |
| This is one of those storms that your marriage simply | | | | whatsoever to cheat. There is nothing the other |
| is not going to weather unless both of you are willing | | | | woman or man can offer that cannot be gotten at |
| to make it work. | | | | home. Counseling will help you get to the bottom of the |
| What are some things you can do that will make it | | | | problem and may even help you verbalize sticky topics |
| easier for both of you? | | | | within the relationship that you would not be likely to |
| 1)Get marriage counseling as a couple. You may also | | | | discuss otherwise. |