I Hate My Job and Nothing Changes

Copyright (c) 2008 Axel Meierhoeferadvance and become a star or Legendary Leader. All
One of the issues many individuals face when theyyou add whenever required is learning of skills you
are in an established, recurring rhythm is the realizationdon't already have. This way you are known to be
that things seem to stand still. The work starts at thewho you are in every situation, act predictably, and
same time every day. The weekly meetings are onalways with your and others goals in mind - forming
the same day each week. The calls to the partnerswin-win-win situations.
and clients around the globe are pretty much at theWhat are your saying? Did I hear a little bit of: "this isn't
same time and often revolve around the same issues.really me Axel is describing..."
Projects change but the work needed to completeWell, if it's not (and nobody is perky and great every
them is repetitive.second of every day), ask yourself: WHY?
Once, or in some cases, twice a year, theThe answer is what I said before: How you do
performance review is the point in time to reflect andanything is how you do everything.
find out if what you have done has put you in a placeIf you want to change and become the person who is
that allows for advancement, or at least a raise. Onechosen, accepted, loved, asked for help, etc. change
of the questions that will be answered in that processthe way you do things. Start with the small and easy
is:stuff and move forward to bigger and bigger things.
Did you achieve the goals we have said since the lastThe more you do it the more it becomes second
review?nature - and if you want to know if you are doing it
If things went half way they always do, that isright:
probably answered with a resounding YES!Ask those you trust for honest and open feedback!
Next comes the question:They will appreciate it and you will not only know what
What has happened that requires changes? (This canworked so far, but receive wonderful advice on how
be phrased in many different ways and typically aimsyou can do even better - often faster then you think.
to mean: What have you done for me (your boss) orNow you know: How come nothing changes?
the company (the place that pays your paycheck).Take the first step to do something different and
Depending on circumstances there either is aneverything will start to get better, unless you are one
opportunity to advance and the discussion might shiftof the few among us who already do everything the
to the how and when of it, - and if there isn't you setway they do anything in a successful, loving, caring and
the goals for the time till the next review, probably signmeaningful way. In that case, keep doing what you're
a form, and go on with you normal routine.doing and let other participate in your success.
One of the most important questions isn't addressedIf, on the other hand, you are frustrated, like 84% of
because everybody seems to believe that therespondents in a recent poll, then take a first step and
dialogue has to happen internally within ourselves. In aplay to your strength. To find out what they are,
nutshell it comes down to:performing an assessment is a good first step. You
How you do anything is how you do everythingcan also get a coach who will guide you to discover
If you are always on time, prepared, trying to improveyour goals, your ambitions, and your strength. This will
yourself, be caring for others, loving to those you havepave a way to a better future. It will be fun, enjoyable
relationships with, oriented towards your goals inand open completely new ways of life for you. You
harmony with the goals of your family, your employer,find more information and answers when getting in
and your life, then you are doing everything you can totouch with me at AMC LLC.