I'm Making a List and Checking It Twice - My Favorite Songs

In the movie High Fidelity, John Cusack says, "Whichthe blanks.I love live performances. If I have seen a
came first - the music or the misery? Do I listen to popperformer live AND have their music on a CD I'm in
music because I am miserable or am I miserableheaven. If I have CDs of a favorite singer and haven't
because I listen to pop music?" Personally, I like popseen them live, I search on the internet for their
music and all kinds of music. I really enjoy listening toconcert dates. And sometimes I just fall into the right
music with friends. I'm not miserable at all.Some of mysituation.A friend attended a performance of Judy
friends like pop music. Some don't. Some likeCollins at The Triple Door in Seattle, a small 300 seat
country-western music. Some hate it. Some like classicdinner and music venue. I asked him to bring back a
rock. Some don't. Personally, I appreciate all kinds ofcalendar of upcoming events. After the concert he
music. I may not like some writers or performers, but injust told me the website address of The Triple Door
almost all genres, there are songs I like.In the mid-1980s,and I went there to look around. To my surprise I found
my wife and I joined forces with some friends and ranout that Guy Clark was appearing just a week and a
a small dance club, The Bedrock Lounge. For a while ithalf later.Peg and I once attended a Nanci Griffith
was the place to go . . . until we had liquor boardconcert and expected to see Guy Clark open for her.
problems. We mostly played alternative rock andTo our dismay, he didn't make the trip. Since that time
dance mixes. On the weekends we brought in livewe have purchased several of his CDs, however.
bands. Peg and I listened to a wide variety of music. ITwo days later I was invited to join friends for a
played records through the evening and into the earlyperformance of Romeo and Juliette in Olympia. I
morning hours. She knit, read, and worked on herdeclined, but mentioned that we were going to see
calligraphy. From pop to classics and show tunes, we'llGuy Clark just a few days later.Guy Clark was
listen.Every time someone mentions a musical I like, Iwonderful. We had a decent dinner, enjoyed Rachel
generally say, "Oh, that's one of my favorites." I don'tHarrington, his opening act, and saw him live with our
really have a list of favorites, but perhaps I should writeOlympia friends. Good food, good music, and good
one down. Like Cusack, again, in High Fidelity says,friends. There was no misery to mix in with our
"What really matters is what you like, not what you'relistening pleasure.Don Doman is a published author,
like."When I attend a musical with my wife, we alwaysvideo producer, and corporate trainer. He owns the
buy the cast album if possible. If you are familiar withbusiness training site Ideas and Training ( which he
particular Broadway musicals you can experience thesays is the home of the no-hassle "free preview" for
entire play just by listening to the music. In your mindbusiness training videos. He also is webmaster for the
you can see the characters, hear their lines and watchmusic/movie website Videos, Music, and More( which
their actions. In reality you are just listening to the songspromotes the world of music and entertainment.
performed on stage, but the human mind tends to fill in