What Does Homeschooling Mean to Me?

What does homeschooling mean to me? It hasthey need more time with something, we can slow
become such an integral part of who we are as adown to make sure they master it. And I know right
family, that it would be difficult to analyze it separately.away when they need more help. Problems are not
It truly has become our way of life.Homeschoolinghidden until they become major issues; we can take
means I spend more time with my children - all ofcare of them right away. I know and love my children
them, not just the little ones. My older kids attended abetter than anyone else, so their success is
"regular" school for several years before we startedparamount.Homeschooling means my older kids get to
homeschooling, and I always felt out of touch withsee the younger ones grow and develop. They were
what was going on in their lives. We were growingjust as amazed to hear the youngest laugh for the
apart, both figuratively and literally. Why has societyfirst time as I was. Everyone is learning more about
accepted that parents should want to be with thechild care, and patience, and putting the needs of
babies and toddlers, but once the kids reach schoolothers ahead of their own. These are life skills that are
age, we're supposed to prefer to not have themimportant for anyone.Homeschooling means a more
around? I didn't have children in order to send them offrelaxed daily schedule - OUR schedule - which results
to spend their day with some other adult. I didn't feelin less stress. Our day is flexible; we can schedule
that way when they were born, and I don't feel thatappointments at less busy times. We don't have to get
way today. I deeply enjoy each and every one of myup before dawn to catch a bus at 6:50 am. I really
children, and I love having them with me everydon't think anyone should have to be out of bed while it
day.Homeschooling means we are free to discuss ouris still dark out. :)Homeschooling means more free time
faith openly, and apply it to all areas of life and study.to pursue other activities. We can finish a day's work in
God is not relegated to only Sunday school, or evenless time since we don't have to continually organize a
only Religion class. History is full of faith-filled peopleclassroom of 20 or 30 students, or spend time walking
whose actions and ideas were directly related to theirup and down long hallways.Homeschooling means we
faith, including the founding fathers of our country. Ican visit DisneyWorld during the off-peak times,
really don't see how one could teach about howinstead of fighting crowds of people stuck to school
America began without mentioning God. Science is invacation schedules.Homeschooling means, on the other
reality a study of God's creation. How can one look athand, living in a house that is never quite all clean.
such an amazing world and not appreciate the SourceHaving six children home all day, every day, creates
of all? Writing and reading can include faith-relatedmore mess (especially in the kitchen), and makes it
topics. When dealing with discipline issues, God and Hismore difficult to keep up with the cleaning, laundry, etc.
teachings can be included in the discussions. It wouldIt doesn't bother me as much as it did at first, because
seem unnatural for a person of any faith to spend theirI had to set priorities. The education and growth of my
entire day forbidden to mention theirchildren come first. They do help with chores, but not
God.Homeschooling means I have an incredibly openat the expense of schoolwork. Every couple of days,
and close relationship with my two teenagers. They willwhen I reach my limit, everyone takes a break and
talk to me about anything, and are not embarassed tocleans up. But until they all move out, there will still be
be seen with me or our whole family. We laughsome mess.Homeschooling means I can slow down
together, and actually enjoy each other's company. Myand live in the present moment when necessary. I
sixteen-year-old daughter and fourteen-year-old sonhave grown to really appreciate the time I have with
have become great friends to each other. They havemy younger children, taking a few minutes at any time
not been made to feel that parents are irrelevant, orto watch them take such joy in each new skill they
the enemy. More time together means we know eachlearn. I definitely feel less rushed since we started
other much better.Homeschooling means I know, andhomeschooling, and I am able to be there for each
select, which books my children read and learn from. Ismall, yet monumental moment in the life of a
am also aware of, and guide, the topics of discussion. Ichild.Homeschooling means, in short, more time and
don't have to wonder what "life lessons" they areopportunity to fully live out my vocation of
picking up at recess, on the school bus, or even inmotherhood.[Please don't misconstrue my words to
class. I choose when they learn certain things, whenimply that these things are not possible for anyone
they are ready (and it has been at a different age forwho does not homeschool. This has been a discussion
each of them). I plan and direct their education, a levelof what homeschooling means to ME. Every family is
of involvement which is very important tounique; every family has their own path to follow in
me.Homeschooling means my children can progressfinding what is best for them.]Cynthia Brandolini has
through their studies at their own pace. When theybeen educating her own children at home since 2000.
learn something quickly, they can just move on. When